Ártur Rioni on Instagram: "There is a certain tone people use when they say that sentence. Calm. Proud. As if something wild was finally brought under control. I have heard it in boardrooms from senior executives talking about their partners. I have heard it from consultants describing “difficult” colleagues. I have heard it from therapists quoting clients who believed emotional intensity was a problem to be solved. One clinical psychologist I observed working with high performing couples explai